When it comes to the transfer of assets, emotionally charged disputes can arise. Weather it be from the particular dynamics of a family or misunderstandings, tensions can run high if everyone is not on the same page. Effective communication, though, is one strategy that can lead to dispute resolution allowing the estate administration process to run smoothly.
If you need assistance with a serious conflict regarding a loved one’s estate, then our Maryland and D.C. estate litigation lawyers at The Law Office of Thomas Stahl can help. When a loved one is lost, the grief can be overwhelming, and addressing an estate can lead to disagreements and hostility. Estate administration, where there are disputes, can be complex and difficult to unravel. During such a challenging time, family members may benefit from the guidance and support of an experienced attorney.
Communicating Effectively When a Dispute Arises
The peaceful transfer of wealth is usually what the goal of an estate plan is. However, when there are questions about the process or if some involved has expectations that are unrealistic disputes can arise which can lead to costly and lengthy litigation.
Figuring out the root of what is causing the disagreement is a critical first step in these delicate situations. Perhaps a will is not written clearly concerning how a decedent wants their assets distributed. Or a family may have an internal conflict that fuels their interpretations of how an estate should be managed and who should get what. Identifying what is the fundamental issue inflaming the dispute is essential to unravel the true wishes of the deceased while also respecting and considering the opinions of everyone involved.
Effective communication is a good starting point for conflict resolution. Dialogue that is respectful can go a long way in working towards a mutually agreed upon solution. Some of the communication tactics that can be adhered to for facilitating productive dialogue include:
- Allow every party to speak uninterrupted and with a focus and understanding of what they are saying.
- Leave judgment at the door. A negative attitude and judgemental speech do not allow for fruitful discussions.
- Stay open and honest with concerns and opinions.
- Stick with “I” statements and avoid confrontational language.
- Be inquisitive and ask questions to ensure that there are no misunderstandings.
- Demonstrate empathy for others involved in discussions. Everyone’s options and perspectives are valid.
Some of the most common reasons for disputing the administration of an estate include but are not limited to:
- Allegations of fraud
- Allegations that the decedent was bullied or was under duress when putting their estate plan together
- Allegations that the decedent was intoxicated and not of sound mind when putting their estate plan together.
- Missing assets
Maryland And D.C. Estate Planning Attorneys
Contact the seasoned and experienced Maryland and D.C. estate planning lawyers at The Law Offices of Thomas Stahl for more information on how you can resolve a dispute involving a loved one’s estate. We have the skills and expertise you need. We have proven experience with estate law for Maryland and the District of Columbia. Schedule a consultation today or call us at (410) 696-4326 or (202) 964-7280. We have offices in Columbia, MD, and Washington, DC.
